22346053 Minhajul kabir Shakib "Good understanding with parents is important for every child"
"Good understanding with parents is important for every child"
Parents
are the greatest asset in every child’s life.
From birth we grow up with our parents. Parents raise us with love and
affection. Parents teaches us to speak. This is how we grew up. But when we
grow up we can’t share everything with parents. we can’t tell our parents all
the good and bad things about our lives. why? Because we don’t have a good
understanding with our parent’s. For some reasons we don’t have good
understanding with them. parents will not be friendly with us. For every child
his parents should be a good friend’s. Because we can share everything with
good friends. If our parents are our good friends then we can share everything
and every problem in our life. No one else can solve the problems of their
children as easily as parents. he role of parents holds great importance in
children’s life. Happy and stable relationships with parents may help children
in the following ways-
- ü Enable
them to develop happy relationships with others.
- ü Give
them greater ability to stay stable during stressful conditions.
- ü Promote
better mental and emotional development.
- ü Create
a foundation for strong academic skills.
- ü Help
them become great problem-solvers.
Some reason for not having good understanding
with parents.
Staying away from
parents since childhood. For example, I don’t have a good understanding with my
father due to the fact that my father lives outside the country since my
childhood. parents may have grown up in a culture with
different beliefs.
Bad understanding or not having good understanding effect in our life. The bad habits of parents such as drinking, smoking and lying can grossly affect the physical and mental health of a child. A child who sees his parents following a disciplined lifestyle like healthy eating and regular exercising is more likely to imbibe and practice one himself. Children are often the victims of their parents’ bad temper. Such children are likely to develop a mercurial temperament.
So that parenting is important for understanding with child. he parenting style includes clear and reasonable expectations as well as respectful and supportive interactions.
Clear Message: Parents need to communicate clearly the dos and don’ts to their children. For example: If you want your child to clean up the room, say, “Please clean-up the room” instead of “Don’t make a mess.” A clear communication of praise can provide motivation to your child.
Be A Good Role Model: Being a good role model for the children inspires them to behave better. Instead of using “Do as I say, not as I do” method, imbibe good qualities in yourselves. Remember parents are a child's first teacher.
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